I’m still relatively new to the whole social media thing.
All of the things that allow me to reach more people with my message about exercise and healthy living.
But lately, I’ve been spending far too much time with my keyboard and computer monitor. Time that I could be spending with my family or in the kitchen or at the gym.
Don’t get me wrong. I love the conversations I’ve been having with readers and followers and other bloggers. There are so many interesting and talented people that the Internet has introduced me to. I have more in common with many of my online friends than the ones I’ve known personally for years 😉 .
But here’s the rub. All the time spent interacting and promoting and engaging on social media is time unavailable for creating the blog content that contains the message you come here to read!
I know that I’m not alone when it comes to putting the brakes on internet time. E-mails and tweets and DM’s seem like they need to be answered right now. But let’s be honest, very few digital communications are urgent; if there’s an emergency, they’ll call you on the phone!
In an attempt to regain some balance in my life, I’m imposing some social media rules on myself.
- E-mail, Twitter, FB and blog comment responses will be limited to 15 minutes each morning, after breakfast is finished and children’s lunches are packed for the day. No more running out the door in a panic (and without my own lunch) because I ‘needed’ to respond to ‘one more tweet’.
- Blog reading, writing and maintenance will not occur until after my morning workout (and I will not ‘skip out on the last set’ to make more time for the above).
- Mid-day and pre-dinner Twitter and Facebook time will be limited to 15 minutes each.
- After dinner internet time will be limited to evenings with planned Twitter chats (and when children aren’t interested in spending time with me!).
- All electronics will be unplugged at least 2 hours prior to bedtime (otherwise I find my mind racing when it should be winding down)
So, if I don’t answer your e-mail or DM or tweet within a few hours, don’t despair. It doesn’t mean that I don’t like you or want to hear from you or am (gasp!) ignoring you. It just means that I’m unplugged, doing some of the other things I love to do and I’ll be back online in a little while!
Do my rules sound overly harsh to you?
How do you balance social media time with ‘real life’?