Seems like everywhere I look, I see ads for ‘summer shape up’ challenges, ‘bikini body’ bootcamps and ‘get fit quick’ workouts. Many of which promise that if you simply follow their programs, you’ll have the ‘body of your dreams’ in a mere 4 weeks or less. (This one must be the best; only 7 days!)
In reality, unless you’ve been eating clean and exercising regularly since LAST summer, you’re unlikely to obtain the promised results in time for the upcoming ‘bathing suit season’.
While I love the idea of people getting more active and cleaning up their diets, I don’t believe in ‘seasonal fitness’.
Why? Losing weight, building muscle and creating definition require taking a long-term view. Consistency and progression are your keys to success. Each day, do a little bit more than the day before. Make it a lifestyle not a short term means to an end.
I like to think of fitness the same way I think about sock yarn blankets and parenting.
All three are big, long term projects, punctuated by shorter duration ‘tasks’.
Thinking about the end point (10 unassisted chin ups; 42, 7-inch knitted blocks; 3 university graduates) can be overwhelming.
Focusing on the smaller achievements (a single chin up; each separate block; preschool graduation) makes the journey more enjoyable and allows for reflection and mid-stream changes in direction.
By all means, use the summer as incentive to get moving and make better choices in the kitchen, but don’t expect to reach the end of your journey in a few short months.
Interested in turning your ‘seasonal fitness’ program into a long term lifestyle change? I’d love to help and have a few spots currently available in my online fitness coaching practice.
Shoot me an email (tgrand@telus.net) and we’ll talk; not ‘seasonal fitness’, but fitness for all seasons!






























Do you avoid the ‘f’ word? | Talking to kids about obesity
Lately, my nearly 9-year old son has become obsessed with body weight. Not his own, mind you. Everybody else’s.
It all started with a trip to the vet’s. Our ginger cat was due for his annual well-pet visit and the children wanted to tag along. Having never weighed him at home, we were surprised (well, sort of surprised, okay, not really surprised) when the vet told us that at 19.4 lbs, he was overweight and needed to be put on a diet.
Since then, my son constantly refers to the cat as ‘chubby’, ‘obese’, ‘fatty catty’ and ‘big butt’. While that cat doesn’t seem to mind (he’s wary of A. at the best of times), it bothers me to hear him use those words so comfortably when describing another living being (even if it is just the cat).
Recently, he’s taken to pointing out overweight people when we’re out in public. Most of this time, thankfully, it’s from behind the sound-proof glass of our car. Every now and then, he uses his ‘inside voice’ when we’re out in public.
I’ve had many quiet chats with him about why we don’t call people names and draw attention to their physical appearance (‘if you don’t have anything nice to say about somebody, don’t say anything at all’). He doesn’t believe there’s anything wrong with it, as he’s just stating the truth (‘just the facts ma’am’), as we’ve always taught him to.
I worry about this behaviour for several reasons:
We don’t use either the ‘f’ word or the ‘d’ word at home.
While we do talk about the health benefits of maintaining an appropriate weight for your height and regularly discuss the merits of eating whole, unprocessed foods (usually when one child or another is trying to convince me to buy something I don’t consider a healthy option while grocery shopping), we try hard not to vilify certain foods or make judgements about people who eat them (who doesn’t enjoy a cupcake, now and then?).
Am I being overly sensitive to language? How do you talk to your children about body weight, obesity, and body image? Do you discourage them from using the words ‘fat’ and ‘diet’? Have you ever noticed them adopting ‘fattist’ attitudes? How does one avoid it?
I’d love to hear your thoughts about talking to kids about obesity.
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